A lot of people resist the urge to pay thousands of dollars for a wedding planner and choose to go the DIY route and plan their own weddings. If you fall into this category and are planning your own ceremony, check out these helpful tips below and make that special day, one you can be proud of.
Realize that religion is going to play a major role on your actual wedding day and moving forward in your marriage. Religious beliefs or the lack of religion should be discussed well before marriage.
Give your husband-to-be, some cuff links and a tie clip on the morning of your wedding, so he can match your jewelry. It looks great in photos, when there is a splash of sparkle and color on both of you and it will be very meaningful for him to know that you were thinking of him on your big day.
Of course you probably know to tell your DJ or band what songs you expect, but also consider telling them songs you absolutely do not want at your wedding. Maybe you like metal, country, or have a great song that reminds you of someone from the past. Be sure your DJ is well aware of your preferences in advance to avoid discomfort.
Instead of spending a fortune on a wedding cake, get a bunch of mini-tarts or cupcakes. These arrangements are more convenient, versatile, and more cost effective. Guests are able to take a cupcake when they leave, if you put them in a fancy take-out container.
Make sure you get a list of references from every single vendor you secure. If they’re not willing to give you one, move on to someone else. You should get a long and varied list of people who speak highly of the person or company you’ve chosen so that you can feel secure in your choice.
Make sure you book a professional wedding photographer. Your wedding day is probably a day you will want to remember for the rest of your life. By hiring a professional photographer for the day, you can make sure that you get some tangible evidence of the day that you can keep for the rest of your life.
Going the do-it-yourself route can really put a lot of pressure on you to pull off a stellar event, whether you’re the one getting married or just the one planning the ceremony. Always make sure that you’re seeking advice on how to simplify the process. Use what you’ve learned here and plan a great wedding.