Weddings are beautiful and inspirational. Unfortunately, that is the end result, and along the way there tends to be a lot of stress, confusion and anxiety. This article will give you some great advice on planning your fabulous day and how to handle everything that comes your way.
Understand that all who are supporting you and helping with your wedding are doing it out of love, as you should show them respect and appreciate what they are doing for you. Do not become a “bridezilla”, as this can alienate a lot of people and put a damper on the days leading up to your wedding.
Tell your DJ the songs that you do not want to be played. It doesn’t matter what type of music. No matter what it is, make sure the DJ knows so that you don’t have any unpleasant surprises playing at the wedding.
I was at a wedding last year which seemed more like a circus. Not only did they have the typical events like bouquet tossing and garter removal, but they insisted on playing games throughout the night. Many guests won’t be expecting to have to compete at your reception, nor will they welcome the opportunity. Try to keep entertainment such as this to a minimum.
When borrowing money to pay for your wedding, make sure you get the lowest interest rate possible. Weddings can be expensive, but by borrowing money to pay for the event at the lowest interest rate around, you can avoid further expenses. Make sure you compare credit cards and personal loans to see which financial product offers you the best rate.
You may skimp on your budget for many areas of your wedding to get to the right price, however, do not make this mistake in your photography or video choices. Preserving these memories will be one of the most important parts of your wedding; next to the ceremony itself. Do not be afraid to spend the appropriate amount to get the best for your needs.
Inform the caterer that you would like a reception outdoors. Some foods will not keep well in the heat or might be too light to stay in dishes if the wind is blowing strongly. You may want to cover foods with decorative coverings. A mini-fridge may be useful for keeping your drinks chilled.
Ultimately, your wedding is your own. Don’t let anyone else make plans or decisions for you that you are not comfortable with. Now that you have some great advice and tips in mind for planning your big day, you can sit back and have the confidence to plan this wedding your way.