Standing at the altar and saying “I do” can be a nerve wracking experience in itself, let alone the planning process for months (or in some cases, years) before the big day. This article offers some tips to help you easily plan your wedding and take your mind off the rest.
Give back to all who are attending the wedding, by making a speech towards the end, thanking everyone for being a part of your life. Most of the attendees at the wedding are integral parts of your history and deserve thanks for where you are at, the day of the nuptial.
Include in your wedding elements of yourselves, your relationship, and your life’s events. Find a theme or topic that reflects your time as a couple.
Vintage or antique place settings are a perfect addition to a retro or period-inspired rehearsal dinner or reception, but they are also extremely expensive. Instead of spending days trying to track down a complete set, consider private rental companies that, for a modest sum, rent out entire place settings, silverware, and serving utensils.
I was at a wedding last year which seemed more like a circus. Not only did they have the typical events like bouquet tossing and garter removal, but they insisted on playing games throughout the night. Many guests won’t be expecting to have to compete at your reception, nor will they welcome the opportunity. Try to keep entertainment such as this to a minimum.
If you are getting married for the second time, make this wedding different than your first. Have it at a different venue and decorate it differently. You do not want your second spouse to think that you are comparing this wedding to your first one. Also, make sure the wedding dates are not too close to the first marriage date either.
If you are using a wedding planner, it is important that you work with them to make the seating arrangements. You know your guests, so you know who should be seated with whom. A wedding planner is just going to randomly put people together, which could end up causing tension and stress at your wedding reception.
To save money on your wedding, you may want to consider asking a family member or friend to make your cake. Wedding cakes can go for hundreds of dollars, which is an unnecessary expense if you know someone that is good at baking. Perhaps having a family member or friend make your cake can be their wedding present to you!
A great destination wedding for people who plan to have many children in attendance is at the beach. The kids can play with toys in the sand while the adults watch the nuptials. Provide some toys like buckets and shovels, and ensure someone is willing to watch the kids (provide them with a video of the ceremony afterward.)
This article has provided great wedding planning tips and hopefully you are able to utilize at least a few of them. Through careful planning and thoughtfulness, your wedding will be a day you will always remember. Hurry up and get the planning over with so you can enjoy the special day!