Certainly weddings can be stressful and require much planning, but you just need to be optimistic and have the right information. You can prepare yourself for wedding planning by educating yourself on the subject. Here are some key pointers to help you.
Give back to all who are attending the wedding, by making a speech towards the end, thanking everyone for being a part of your life. Most of the attendees at the wedding are integral parts of your history and deserve thanks for where you are at, the day of the nuptial.
When you decide who you want to give the speeches during the reception, ask them to read them to you so you know they are appropriate. Otherwise, there may be a joke told that may be inappropriate to the youngsters or elderly in the crowd.
Consider having an alcohol-free reception to alleviate the worries that inebriated guests can cause. If you do choose to go this route, make sure to offer many beverage options to your guests including soda, water, coffee, and tea so they don’t feel like they’re going to get parched. Having a homemade fruit punch served in a fountain can make a gorgeous centerpiece for your catering table!
If you’re really worried about guests at your wedding drinking too much, you can only offer a cash bar. When people are forced to pay for their alcohol, they’re less likely to drink as much. You could also make the bar cash-only, forcing people to go to an ATM if they run out of money which, when your drunk, isn’t easy.
Check with the post office for their size and weight limitations for letter mail before placing your wedding invitation order. If you can scale back the size and weight of your invitations so that they are considered a standard size, you can save hundreds of dollars in excess postage needed to send something big and bulky.
Practice walking down the aisle before the big day. Many brides get nervous when they have never walked down the aisle, which can cause them to trip and fall. Also, if you have young children as ring bearers, make sure they practice before your wedding day, so they know what they are doing.
You can turn one of your friends into a “mail-order minister” so that she can officiate the ceremony. This adds a personal touch to your ceremony, and also saves you on the costs of an officiant. Make sure to check with the local officials first to see if it’s legal in the area.
If you are the bride of the wedding, be sure to remain humble. While those monster brides may have their own cable series, it isn’t because they are beautiful. It is actually the contrary, as having an ugly attitude can make you to be quite an ugly bride, and those there for you will quickly grow tired of your antics.
Hopefully, you have received some advice that you can use to have a great wedding day. Keep a happy thought as you plan for the happiest day of your life.