Preparing for your wedding can be an exhausting business. Often, the bride is running around trying to create her dream wedding while the groom just wants to get it over with. This can be a lot of stress on a relationship before you even add mothers and mother-in-laws. A good way to keep the peace is to hire a wedding planner.
Give back to all who are attending the wedding, by making a speech towards the end, thanking everyone for being a part of your life. Most of the attendees at the wedding are integral parts of your history and deserve thanks for where you are at, the day of the nuptial.
When sending out your wedding invitations, remember that it is your day, so avoid any person or combination of people that will ruin it in any way for you. It may be an insult to someone not to be invited, but if having them at your wedding will cause even the slightest of issues for you or your future spouse, it is really in your best interest to keep them off your guest list.
When planning for your wedding, the time of day could greatly affect your cost. If you are having an evening wedding, you will have to serve dinner which costs more than serving your guests lunch. If you serve alcohol, more people will drink heavily in the evening than they would at lunch time.
If something goes wrong on your wedding day, don’t freak out! My cake fell over on the way to my ceremony, and both the best man and woman were unable to attend. In the end, those people are no longer in my life and my new best woman was a cake decorator who was able to fix the cake. It will always work out!
Include your fiance in planning your wedding or he’ll end up feeling like it wasn’t really his day at all. If he says he doesn’t care what you do he might just be saying that to keep you happy, so try to include him in the catering or cake choice so he has a yummy way to get involved.
You’re going to look at the pictures from your wedding for many years to come, so make sure that you get good quality photos taken. Make sure that you hire a professional photographer and spend a little extra money on this if you have to so that you can document your experience wonderfully.
For an outdoor wedding, try to place your guests away from staring into the sun. The sun should be on your guests’ backs so that they are not blinded while trying to watch you take your vows. You can also try planning your wedding where the sun will benefit you, by providing a beautiful sunset behind where you and the groom will be standing.
Let your wedding planner do all the worrying. The entire thing can be designed and organized according to your plans without causing undue strife. You’ve probably dreamed about your wedding for years, so let it be the best day of your life. You are the center of attention, relax, smile and enjoy it.