Too many people put to much importance on the wedding day and don’t give much thought to the many days after or the rest of their lives together. This article can help you to keep things in perspective and to remember that the wedding is just the first of many days of a lifetime together.
Pick food for your wedding that YOU enjoy. Don’t worry about what your guests think, it’s your day to enjoy! The only thing you should consider, is if you were a vegetarian, then you should offer a few meat options to your guests and not force a tofurken on them.
DO not select a dress that requires you to go on a starvation diet. You are going to find yourself dehydrated and lightheaded if trying to lose weight too quickly prior to your wedding. You would hate to faint while standing at the altar. Buy a dress that has a corset back instead for more flexibility.
If you want to minimize the stress that you have on the days leading up to your wedding, hire a wedding planner. This person will be able to make sure that everything runs smoothly and that time management is taken care of. Hiring a wedding planner can be expensive but it can make a huge difference to your stress levels, as well as to the overall quality of the wedding day.
Choose your reception venue with the guests in mind. If your family is mostly elderly then you aren’t likely to choose a location with a lot of stairs, or a big dance floor. If you have anyone in your family who is handicapped then you should ensure that the venue knows they’re coming and will make everything accessible to them.
If you are charging to photograph a wedding, make sure that all expectations are set before the big day. Find out what the couple are expecting to get at the end and what the cost will be. If you’re offering your services for free, then it’s just as important to find out what end product you’re being expected to deliver, and what it will cost you.
Before choosing a photographer for your wedding day, browse around for ones with the most skill and experience. You never want a photographer who is unlikely to make you happy in the end. For advice on great photographers in your area, you can check out reviews online or ask family members if they know of one.
Give the children who attend your wedding some responsibility to keep them occupied. If they have to guard the ring with their life, or count how many people come in the doors, they’ll have something to do and it should keep the boredom at bay. They may need to have different tasks to keep occupied, though, as they could become tedious.
If you are running low on money or want something unique, you do not have to buy an actual dress made for the bride at your wedding. Check out some of the different types of bridesmaid or department store dresses, which will offer you a beautiful alternative at a fraction of the cost.
If you want a destination wedding, you should probably visit the location before or have someone do it for you. You can find agencies that offer this kind of services. You should do as much research as possible in advance so that you are not disappointed when you get there.
As put forth in the beginning of the article, the importance of the wedding day is that it is the first day of the rest of your lives together. Don’t get too wrapped up in just that one day. By following the advice in this article, you can keep things in perspective for your wedding and your happily ever after.