The planning of your wedding can prove stressful for both you and your partner. During these times, it can be difficult to go to others for support and assistance with decisions due to the fact everyone has their own ideas and you will wind up in a bigger state of confusion. This article will have advice on how you can plan your wedding without losing your sanity.
When planning a wedding, alcohol needs to be a consideration as to what type you want to serve, as well as what the costs are going to be. Open bar is the most expensive option, and the longer the bar is open, the more expensive it becomes. If holding the wedding at an outside venue, they may have alcohol serving options available that can control costs.
Make sure that your husband and his groomsmen have everything planned in advance in the days leading up to the wedding. Check that they have all of the materials for their tuxedos and that everything fits as well. This will reduce your anxiety and ensure that everything goes according to plan.
For an outdoor wedding, try to place your guests away from staring into the sun. The sun should be on your guests’ backs so that they are not blinded while trying to watch you take your vows. You can also try planning your wedding where the sun will benefit you, by providing a beautiful sunset behind where you and the groom will be standing.
Pick food for your wedding that YOU enjoy. Don’t worry about what your guests think, it’s your day to enjoy! The only thing you should consider, is if you were a vegetarian, then you should offer a few meat options to your guests and not force a tofurken on them.
The day before you have your wedding, you should pamper yourself as much as possible by going to a spa for a massage. This will allow you to reduce the stress and tension of the days leading up to your wedding so that you feel more comfortable walking down the aisle.
If you fear that people won’t want to give you cash wedding gifts as they don’t have a lot of money to give, include a “cash box” at the door to your reception. Guests are asked in the wedding invitations to bring their gift in an unmarked envelope, allow them to place it in the box anonymously and reducing any guilt they might feel.
Cheers to you for your fortitude thus far. Planning your wedding does not have to be a stressful experience. Remember that it’s your own wedding. Use these tips to make your wedding memorable.